Disconnect to Re-Engage,
People Back away from Your Cell
Disconnect to Re-Engage and Just Notice What you Notice.
OK, people put down your cell phones, Blackberries, PDA’s, Pocket PC’s…What ever! And FOCUS. This may sound amusing but I am dead serious here. Oh, and I don’t mean turn them to vibrate, stun or whichever setting you normally do to appear courteous. I want you to shut them OFF. Off means OFF! But wait, there’s more: I want you to keep it OFF for one full day. Yes indeed I formally declare the first ever “National Disconnect to Re-engage Day”.
So how do you know if you need this challenge? Well, if you have checked for messages in the past 10 minutes, you need to detox. If you have ever scrolled emails over the dinner table, you need to detox. Have you checked messages and emails while on vacation, right after making love to your partner, perhaps while the kids opened their Christmas gifts, during your weekly visit to church? OK, simply if you own one, you need to detox.
Now I know, we all feel very self-important; You know that “I’m needed” feeling you get when your little mini personal excitement device vibrates on your hip. I can feel the wall of reasons that are coming up why YOU are different than the other 2 billion people on the planet who are also addicted to their connection crutches but to tell you the truth, you are not. Sorry to break that news to you. Now if you currently are working in an Emergency Room, are an “on call” doc or perhaps are an EMT, then you can keep yours on during this day off. For the rest of you that you are going right to “what if… someone really needs me?” Well tell them up front they can call you on your land line and if you are not there. LEAVE A MESSAGE. Now here’s a novel thought about what you can do with the time you will literally have on your hands this day. Go and buy yourself a stamp, and put pen to paper and write someone a handwritten letter. You many need a massage after to help with the cramps you will experience, but whoever you write to, will love receiving your letter later that week.
But here’s the real reason you are going to take on this challenge. I want you to “just notice what you notice” about yourself for one full day of less distractions. Notice how you love the freedom from the constant connection. Notice that you feel out of sorts and seem to fumble around. Notice what people actually look like when they talk with you this day. Notice what you can read between the lines in conversations with family, friends and co-workers. But most importantly notice yourself. Being engaged in something, whether it’s your work, your relationships or yourself, means having a current conscious awareness of more than just the obvious that is surrounding you at any given time. It means giving a dam about what you are doing. And consciously making decisions to give it your all. Here’s to shifting towards Re- Engagement.